The monsters in literature that stick with us through the decades are not the ones that come purely from imagination. The monsters that we write about, think about, and make movies about most are either the monsters that we create or the monsters we become. We are afraid of the part of ourselves that is most like the monsters we fear.
One example that supports this idea would be hate. Hate is a monster we fear because he/she/it represents the part of ourselves that dilikes or is disliked by other people.
For a long time people have learned to hate and be hated by others. It is usually the same reason for both sides. People might hate you for being stupid, ugly, a different race, etc. You may also hate them because of reasons like that. Hate is where you absolutly dislike a person or a thing. You are mostlikely meen and hateful to that person. You hert there fealings and can sometimes physically hurt them because you don't like them.
The fear of being hated by others is sad because I don't think being disliked by someone is a bid deal. But so many of us are afraid of it because we want people tolike us. So say someone is being bullied at school, they are afriad of the person that is bullying them. It could be so bad that they don't come to school or even kill themselves. This is because they are afraid of being physicaly abused or made fun of for some reason. One main reason people are afriad of this kind of thing is if it is happening to the they are afriad that they will get hurt worse if they tell someone. They might tell someone but that person doesn't believe them or just doesn't want to help them for some reason.
From this fear of hate we can learn from it because we no want kind of things happen. We have known someone this has happend to or have herd about it so you have knowledge of the situation. So if we have a basic idea of why someone dosn't llike you and hurts or says hateful things to you, we can atleast try to do something about it. Fight back, makeit so they don't want to mess with you anymore. Tell them off, get help from anyone you can. Fight them to make it seem like your not afraid of them. You never know you might win and they will leave you alone. Oh and I am not encouraging that you fight only under certain sercomestances.
So we fear hate because it makes you left out of everything so you either don';t have friends, you are picked on, or actually hurt. We can learn frm others problems and misstakes and use it in our lives to make them better. We can do alot of things to get rid of the fear of hate we just need to apply it.
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